Dating Advice: How to get a tall girl when you're a short man
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Landing the big one
Cam, help me out. I'm a short dude but I LOVE tall women. I'm appealing in every way except for my height. How do I hit on women who are a foot taller than me without having them think I'm joking?
Ask Cam Response:
Use a longer stick and swing harder....Ok, all joking aside, I understand your problem. There really is nothing like burying your face in some serious sweater meat whilst standing, and it's so easy for you. Look at it this way: most men don't want a girl who makes them feel like a little pussy. This says a lot about your character. You're not afraid to go after what you want, even if people look at you like Wormser from Revenge of the Nerds. Remember, successfully hitting on women, no matter who they are, always comes down to two things:
1. Being bold. Don't be afraid to be outrageous. Everyone knows you're short, but you don't have to act like it. Do you know who the LA Lakers first round draft pick was?...I'll give you a clue: He's 7 feet tall, has a ten inch cock and balls of steel. That's right big guy...It's you! Try looking them square in the nipple and say "Listen, I would look you in the eyes, but I'm more interested in these guys." Then proceed to make suckling noises. If the areolas are her hot spot, you're in like Flynn.
2. The law of large numbers. I'm not talking about fat chicks here, although, they could also improve your closing ratio. I'm talking about approaching as many women as possible. The product you're selling is short guy. Who wants to buy? Some nights maybe nobody, other nights maybe two girls fancy a little dude. You'll never know until you really exhaust your resources and approach all prospects.
That's general advice for everyone but there are also certain things short men shouldn't do. Avoid situations where you're standing directly next to a tall girl. Especially on the dance floor. Girls are much more self concious than guys and the true root of your problem is that women are insecure with themselves. They don't really have any problem with a short guy, they're just worried about how people will view them when it looks like they're babysitting their date. Along the same lines, don't hold hands while you're crossing the street, it looks weird.
Another thing, don't over do it with the workingout. The Napoleon Complex is never more apparent than when a little guy tries too hard to make himself look bigger. When a short guy builds large muscles, he looks like a summer sausage. Unless you know a girl who's really into Pepperidge Farms, stick to cardio workouts.
You should also project your voice and speak loudly so that women don't have to bend down to hear your pansy babble. Other than that, wear vertical stripes and let loose. I hope you have a good sense of humor, because the girl you end up with will have a great one.
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I guess Tall Girl was trying to be funny or something. I've been studying a little pick up lately, and I've learned that looks have very little to do with the art of seduction. I'll tell you this once, it's ALL GAME.
With that said, its important to not be shy and really let your charming personality cut through her torso and into her heart. There is no reason you shouldn't have exactly what you want. Be cocky and funny, and charm her group before you talk to her in private.
Other than that, maybe tell her your Tom Cruise's body double, then jump up on a couch and shake your fists in the air.
Platform boots never hurt anyone.
Come on, you sound like the overbearing broad from highschool who did shotput. Tall Girl, maybe you need a short guy to shag you out and relieve your aggression.
There are tall girls who will go out with shorter guys and I've seen them so...You're dumb. But thanks for the comment.
I don’t know. Short guys with tall girls seems to goes against the natural order of things. But then again, I'm 6'2"
So does homosexuality. Thanks for empathizing. Jerk.
Ahaha made me smile today.
I'm short, but hey it's not a problem.
Stupid is as stupid does. Listen Forrest, you run off and play with the little boys.
Real women want real men. Keep reading.
Cam, you're like a more relevant Dear Abby. Keep up the fine work; your readership thanks you.
Cam, I think you need a disclaimer for this one like you did with the "0/12 doctors recommend" this advice. When you're 6'6" you have a slanted view on short. Also, what's a tall girl? I say 5'10" is tall for a women, but someone told me my 5'6" wife was tall. I say she is short (at least to me) It's all a matter of perspective.
I have a question for you - and you know who this is for (think two guys that live together). How do you find a wife? Just curious what you have to say.
I know I'm tall now but I was short once. You can't imagine how hard it is to pick up real women when you're in 6th grade. I know how short guys feel.
Those must have been some pretty lean years.
Not really. I met my ex-wife Sheila when I was 13. We were on a field trip to Yosemite. Let's just say my her nickname for me was El Capitan. She gave me full release on Half Dome, but she ultimately broke my heart. What a bitch...
I am 5'5", which by most standards is short.
I want to do is add that I have NEVER dated a girl shorter than 5'8". They were all attractive (as am I) and happy to be with me. Tall Girl can be as superficial as she likes, but just because she gets first pick out of the tall guys it doesnt mean she gets the best guy. So, to all my fellow short guys, do as Cam said and be bold. I am living truth that he is right, although he might not have believed it himself. Good luck in all your pursuits, short and tall.
guess I should have proof-read that...
If short guys are so great...whats wrong with short women? Does Short Guy want to be taken care of? Is he looking for protection? It just seems like a strange fetish for a little guy to have. I can see falling for one special tall lady, but to have such a preference across the board seems silly. I think a bit more analysis into what this guy is really looking for is necessary to figure out how to help him get it.
If a guy is a lot taller than his girl, then there's little or no eye contact or kissing possible during actual penetration while having sex. I suppose it's true for "doggie style" - but I digress...
Tina... you failed to pay attention to the title of the article:
"How To Get A Tall Girl When You Are A Short Man"
Where do you get off calling this a fetish? Tall girls are sexy, is it strange to be attracted to that? I know a lot of girls who only like to date tall guys... should I assume that they have a fetish too?
I have nothing against short girls, and I assume most short guys dont, but that isnt what this is about. Next Friday I have a date with a girl who is 5'3"... she is amazing. So shut up,
I think that just might work, if it doesn't what do you have to lose? Exactly.
I think that you are a rude, arrogant little man JJ
This is an arguement that will go on forever. I never used to date any girl that was taller than me (I'm 5'9) because I had some to stupid insecurity. Ask me now if I would date a women 5 to 6 feet tall and I might say.....oh yeah. Come on people get over your insecurities if that is what is holding you back, but if it is purely about your preference then that's cool too.
CAM... KEEP ON TRUCKEN! TONIGHT LETS PUT IT TO THE TEST. LET ME GET THE TALL GLASS OF WATER BC DADDY IS THIRSTY.
I'm 24 and 5'5" and only 130 lbs. I work out and run. i also eat enough, but never seem to gain muscle. I look like I'm 17 and have never been on a date let alone have sex. Gay guys seem to be the only ones I can get...but I'm not gay. tall girls, short girls--I like em all.
CONFIDENCE & POWER: If you are not a pubescent or prepubescent male then the odds of you growing any more are slim and none. If you are not blessed with good genes then you better start to take care of yourself. And while personality goes a long way, if you look like John Goodman, it probably won't go far enough. Even though all of these things might be inextricably intertwined, if a guy can gain confidence then he is on the right track. If he can earn some power then things are looking even better. We have all seen the short stocky guy with the tall trophy-wife (or whatever you want to call her) on his arm. Maybe he paid her to be there. Maybe she loves short stocky guys, or, maybe he's just preying on her insecurities. Confidence works both ways. That is, confident secure guys are going to get the girl that YOU want and insecure guys are going to get their faces shoved in the shit. Likewise, confident women are going to get what they want and insecure women are going to want what they get. Insecure women are probably the main reason why ugly, short, (insert derogatory word here) guys are able to pull top-shelf women. So just be confident, or at least act confident - play the part - the worst that can happen is that you get turned down a hundred times and then some insecure woman falls totally head-over-heels for you (she doesn't know the difference). That's better then being the guy whose getting his faced shoved in the shit of some bush-pig.
Kevin (#23) - dress up like a skateboarder and move to SF. You will have women lining up for days to date you and screw you. It really doesn't matter what your profession is - even stockbroker. The only problem is that you'll probably get hit on by lesbians too until they realize you have a penis.
That's a new one on me, and it sounds like great advice. Thanks for reading.cameron
I am a short lovely guy i have a nice sexy tall wife, its all about real love thats what really matters, good men are hard to find, tall men arent. i look look at it this way, those girls that look at hights first are more intrested in looks rather than love, there is no shame in being short, be proud of who you are from the inside, if you are nice clean hearted person you wont believe the amount of girls that will come to you.
My first boyfriend in highschool was over 6'7".....ever since then, I have pretty much dated tall guys. I am 5'10" and I like taller guys. However I am very much attracted to a guy now who is 3 inches shorter than me. His personality, kindness, and looks are EVERYTHING I want. I'm going to go with it for now because all I really want is a good guy that I can relate to. Height isn't everything. But will it bug me in the future? I really don't know.
hey im short i know it but if the gitl knows the type rule u will always win come to the table shes sitting at look at her up and down make sure she notices u did that when she does the same tell her wat the height aint good enough well let me tell u a secret :there are 2 types of guys tall guys with small dicks or short guys with large..u guessed it dicks so why dont u try the big mini me for a change
2 types,
it was really hard for me to understand what you were saying because there was no punctuation and i couldnt figure out where your thoughts started and finished im glad i never had to grade any of your papers in school is english your first language i also dont agree with anything you said lame
I am a guy who happens to be 6'10'' and I am in the market for a woman of stature of at least 6'2'', just to make it interesting. I am of the submissive persuasion and would love to have a woman tower over me, although I realize that that is a near impossibility. I just think really tall wommen are particularly sexy, especially if they are built proportionately. I may never get my wish of having a taller woman than myself, but I cannot help but wonder. Just think of the possibilities of having sex with a woman and having your face buried in her chest! I envy shorter men.
A woman who is taller than you definitely exists. She's probably very lonely. You never know, you might find her. Thanks for reading.
Okay, so here it is...I am 6'2 and always wanted a taller guy, but never ended up with one. It's not at all a matter of being shallow, but there's just something about dancing with someone and being able to look up at him and have a great make-out session. There is a sense of security when a women is with a taller guy, but from my past experiences, I've always thought it to be a super turn on for a guy who's shorter than me to actually have the courage to come up to me and ask me out. Tall or short, I think confidence is the only barrier. If you're a short guy wanting a tall girl all you have to do is ask. Of course it helps if you have a great sense of humor and an awesome personality. There definetely has to be a physical attraction aswell, but trust me on this...be confident and she's all yours!
I completely agree with Sony. I am 5'11 and have never dated a guy taller than me. My current bf is about three inches shorter than I am but he is one of the greatest guys I have ever dated and I would never trade him for a taller guy. But I will say that I have always wanted to date a taller guy, it would be so fantastic if I had to stand on my tip toes to kiss a guy, but I do not let this fantasy get in the way of my choosing a guy that is perfect for me. Honestly, if you have an attraction to a taller girl or shorter guy, go for it, you never know what could happen.
You want a tall girl, or any girl for that matter? It's easy, and simple. Show them the money.
Where's the romance in that? I think you've been watching too much Jerry Maguire.
this is for tall girl #1- i'm 5'11(ish) and i used to have this whole mentality that i could only date guys that were taller than me. and then i met my current boyfriend who is about 3 inches shorter than me. me wanting to date taller guys was completely my own insecurity, and my boyfriend had no problem showing me that i was the one he wanted. initially, he didn't even realize that i was taller- i only noticed because i was self concious. i couldn't be happier with him, reguardless of his height, and in case you're curious, we have no difficulty kissing during penetration (someone made a referance to that). my advice for getting a tall girl is to just make yourself available and be genuine- there's nothing sexier than a real man- short or tall.
I'm 5'10, my husband is 5'6"... I couldnt care less.. I love him and thats all that matters..He thinks its HOT that I am so tall and shows me off whenever he can.. Women who are confident and secure with themselves, never have a problem with this...tallgirl, you're probably missing out on some great guys...
Tall girl #2. I don't need to know about you kissing your boyfriend during penetration. But since you brought it up...How about some details!?
Tall girl #2. I don't need to know about you kissing your boyfriend during penetration. But since you brought it up...How about some details!?
Im 5'7 and have no problem getting women tall ones included
My fiance is just about half a foot shorter than I am. He's also tan and dark-hair and -eyed, being Filipino, and I'm blonde, fair, and blue-eyed, Viking that I am. It's never been a problem for me, nor for him (after he realized I couldn't care less).
The chiller you are, the chiller whoever you're with will be, whether you're the tall girl or the short guy or the average hermaphrodite... Not that I would know about that last one.
tall grils like shorter dudes. like a short guy is inferior to a tall man a tallgirl is inferior to a short girl so the tall uys like me get the short babes and the shorty mc shot shorts like urself get the monsters
Height is all in the mind. Being short is not a handicap. Some short people are great - like me. I am just 5'4" tall and all my proposals fo marriage (I am an Indian) came from girls who were taller than me. My wife is 5'9" tall, but I have some problem with my children. Son at 15 is 5'2" tall and daughter at 12 is 5'7" tall. Thats the only oddity in our lives. Doctors predict that my dughter will be taller than her mother or more than 5'10", maybe even 6', while son may not grow beyond 5'4"
Satya
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Can tall grl pick her partner and do sex......tat wud be so nice and funny..............
i m 6.5 feet. my boy friend is 5.4 feet. i usually lift him and do sex. he is a babty infront of me
Cam,Thank for the advice.Your advice work
I'm 5'8" Black male attracted to taller white girls,at the first they feel shy to date me cause i'm shorter and they feel shy to hold hands or kiss in public cause i'm black.But out of public they go crazy with me.
So i came out with new idea,make more money and buy me fancy car.i was out of debt for the first time .All girls i was approaching while i'm driving they give me a date.And when i come out of the car they dont even care that i'm shorter ,they just wanna party and get wild.
So Make more money shorter guys out there
That's hands down my favorite comment. Thank you Alexander.
How to Get Laid by a Fine-Ass Tall Lady: Instructions for a short guy
I don't know what all the controversy is about. This is easy. I get more chicks than most tall guys ever will in their lives. Just follow my plan and you'll be a pimp.
1. Act like you totally rule. Your attitude is everything here.
2. Be funny. Make the chick laugh. Insult her only slightly in a teasing playful way as well just to give yourself the edge.
3. Buy her as many drinks as possible.
4. Dress to kill and drive a badass car. If you can't buy one, rent it for the weekend and ask her if she wants to go for a drive in your car.
5. Use your imagination from this point.
How to Get Laid by a Fine-Ass Tall Lady: Instructions for a short guy
I don't know what all the controversy is about. This is easy. I get more chicks than most tall guys ever will in their lives. Just follow my plan and you'll be a pimp.
1. Act like you totally rule. Your attitude is everything here.
2. Be funny. Make the chick laugh. Insult her only slightly in a teasing playful way as well just to give yourself the edge.
3. Buy her as many drinks as possible.
4. Dress to kill and drive a badass car. If you can't buy one, rent it for the weekend and ask her if she wants to go for a drive in your car.
5. Use your imagination from this point.
I'm a 6ft 1 lady myself and here's a piece of advice of what not to do. Don't think that a tall girls only interest is basketball. Other than that be confident and don't stand very close when talking to us.
After seeing your column I picked up courage and asked a taller girl and she readily responded. Of course I did not take her for a dance.
Good for you Johnny! Way to pull the old nuts out and put em' on the table. It felt good, didn't it? Thanks for the comment.
People... I'm a 5'7" guy, and I am dating a 6'7" basket ball playing woman...
It is the best thing. She has reservations and so do I but you work through them
Main thing is have fun - and if people a heightest - just tell them to fu ck off! :)
tall girls with short guys look kida cute.......
Hi,
I just wanted to comment on all this nonsense.... im almost 6'1" and i am a lady, and it is harder than anyone thinks it is. society looks down upon couples when the woman is taller, it doesn't "look right!" so people say. HOWEVER, i am in a long term relationship right now 2 years yesterday, with a great guy and he is 5'9, and my ex was even shorter than that! it is not a big deal height should definitely not be anything , just like looks arent everything!
Tall girls are beautiful and sexy!!!!!
You know it's so funny reading what some people said, I am a tall girl 6'2 and proud the guy I am or no with complicated at this point but anyway he's shorter than me he's about 5'11 I think...it's all about the media who you should date and why, but you know in the end your happiness is much more important and you can't choose who your heart falls in love with. How to get a tall girl? There's no right or wrong answer but chemistry an chemistry and to know both of you are comfort in your own skin and accept each other for you are.
im 6ft white my wife is 6ft 3 and black she loves to wear 5 inch heels when we go out one time she was sitting at a table when this matcho muscle guy about 5ft7 asked her to dance tou should have seen the look on his face when my wife stood up and hes eye level with her tits
I always go for shorter ladies myself but always wind up with women who are 5"8 on average. I firmly beleive though that there's someone out there for everyone. Just keep an open mind fellas. If a lady happens to be put off by your height then she's not worth worrying about. There will be someone around the corner waiting for you. You just have to be bold enough to turn that corner. ;)
Hey everyone, it's really interesting to read about what you all think of us tall ladies. I'm just under 6'1 and love it- my best (female) friend is the same height and it's really funny the attention we get when we're out together in heels! I must admit i did you to get surprised by how many shorter men still aproach me, but i guess that's just because of the media 'ideals' that are portrayed. i've personally dated people between the heights of about 5'11 and 6'9, it doesn't really bother me.
Hey everyone, it's really interesting to read about what you all think of us tall ladies. I'm just under 6'1 and love it- my best (female) friend is the same height and it's really funny the attention we get when we're out together in heels! I must admit i did you to get surprised by how many shorter men still aproach me, but i guess that's just because of the media 'ideals' that are portrayed. i've personally dated people between the heights of about 5'11 and 6'9, it doesn't really bother me.
I like this topic. I like it because it gives me a chance to give some honest feedback with the dynamics of male and female relationships. Yes, I too have been down this dark, heartless, emotional path of insecurity. Yes, insecurity. Because deep down, the reason why women aren't feeling that EMOTIONAL connection with men of ANY HEIGHT is because the men that do ask them out lack security in who they are as someone born from God. Granted, I do believe that the American Society puts a lot of CONSTRUCTED PRESSURE for women to go out with taller guys or else it wouldn't be right. HELLO, these ARE JUST OPINIONS FROM OTHER MEN & WOMEN. When both Men and Women realize they are more than just height and physicality, both can have an AUTHENTIC interraction with each other. :SIGH: To Men and Women, life is FAR TO SHORT (pun intended) to let something trivial like height or ethnicity or status to get in the way of what companionship is all about; LOVE. Men, start respecting all women no matter what. Women, it's time to realize when you are MANIPULATED by the media and when you are acting upon your AUTHENTIC emotions. It's time for us to wake up, myself included. We've got a lot to do. God Bless You ALL!
well i don't know about people's insecurity but my own girlfriend is 8 inches taller than me. i hardle reach her breast level when she is in hells but it has its fun.
Well to the person who posted this. its not really to bad to be honest finding a tall woman. Im 6'1 and my bf is maybe 5'7 and thats not the only huge diffrences lol.. hes maybe 115 pounds im 210, i have 11 tattoos taht are large and visable when i go out and about.. hes asian, im white.. so i say best of luck love.. i love short guys.. tall guys just dontreally do it for me
hello everyone...I'm a Moroccan guy(black hair..brown eyes) 19years old and I happen to be about 6inches tall and my weight is about 60kg ...well in here it's hard (impossible) to date a taller girl lol so I always date shorter girls and I like em (not the skinny ones) ...and I think the mean point is about being kind and white enough inside ..don't care about the others .....if you're coming to morocco I'll be there looool I am a hard lover .. best_fahassa@hotmail.com
i'm 5'2 about to ask a girl out that's 6'0. wish me luck.
Good luck! You won't need it though. Just give her a right good motor boating and you'll be in business.
I think dont hesitate to be a short woman or man. I like your views and hoping it will very helpful for those people who are short.
Good Luck to Short people.
I am 5'6'' and my girlfriend is about 6'2''. Though she is almost 8 inches taller we share a great love for each other. She complains while kissing me that she has to bend too much but we can't imagine life witout each other. We have never tried a sexual intercourse. will there be any problem??
I don't think there will be any problem, especially for you. Her tits will probably be in your face the whole time. Right on.
Hi, My name is Bill, I have a lovely taller wife who is 14 yrs. younger than me and about a 1/2 foot taller. I
Hi, My name is Bill, I have a lovely taller wife who is 14 yrs. younger than me and about a 1/2 foot taller. I am
Hi, My name is Bill, I have a lovely taller wife who is 14 yrs. younger than me and about a 1/2 foot taller. I am only
Hi, my name is Bill, I have a lovely taller wife who is 14 yrs. younger than myself. and 1/2 a foot taller. I am a petite man who stands 5'0 tall and weighs only 110 lbs. We were graced with a healthy daughter, Ashely who already dwarfs me at 5'4 and is only 10 yrs.old. When we go the park , my daughter gives me long piggyback rides instead of me haveing to giver her one. Its pretty odd for people to see but every one thinks it is cute. I love my wife and my daughter and height makes no issue, i am all the man they need..
Tall Girl, you're full of shit. I'm a real woman who's 5'6.5", and my boyfriend of over a year is 5'3". He's a real man.
That said, I found this article slightly offensive toward short men. Pansy babble? Hardly. The one thing I do agree with is confidence - if you act like you're just like any other person (which short men are), then we'll treat you just like any other person. For the record, we hold hands crossing the street - while I'm wearing 4" heels. A few guys commented, "Yeah, girl," as I passed by.
So eat that, heightists.
Oh, and let me just say, height is definitely not an indicator of what's going on under the zipper...8 inches baby. Heh. I'm a lucky girl.
I'm a 5'5 guy and I love taller women. Tall girls really are sweet and caring, and they really understand, but not all of them. The love really really counts not the height and might. I simply love taller girls, it makes me feel complete.
FIRST OFF GATE I WANT TO ADDRESS THE TALL GIRL REMARK ITS RETARDED SIMPLY PUT. I AM 5'7 AND I LIKE TALL WOMEN, SHORT WOMEN, I LIKE THEM ALL IF THEY ARE APPEALING TO ME. IF YOU ARE SELF CONSCIOUS ABOUT YOUR HEIGHT A FEMALE WILL PICK UP ON IT AND WONT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY. I HAVE HAD RELATIONS WITH SOME TRUE AMAZONS TALL N SKINNY, TALL N THICK ITS ALL ABOUT THE GAME YOU GOT TO CONVINCE HER GIVING YOU SOME IS THE RIGHT THING FOR HER TO DO BUY MAKING HER LAUGH, AND FEEL SOME CONNECTION TO YOU. FOR ALL YOU LACKING IN GAME PICK UP A COPY OF SILKY BLACK'S KEYS 2 THE GAME BY GOLDEN STYLE ON AMAZON.COM IT CAN GREATLY ENHANCE YOUR INNER GAME.
I have dated both guys who are shorter than I am and taller than I am. My current boyfriend is 5' 6'' (That's a five inch height difference, folks) and he is amazing. I think a lot can be said about a guy who is confident enough not to let the height difference bother him or make him insecure, and who can shrug off the snide remarks from ignorant people. If he doesn't have a problem with standing on his tiptoes to kiss me, I have no problem with holding his hand in public.
@ - 5'11" girl . I have no problem dating any girl as long as she's willing to make me a sandwich. I think it's all about compromise and sacrifice.
I'm like 5'5"-5'4" and I can't say I have a thing for tall women in particular, but I DO have a thing for about 70% of the women I pass by on my way to work every morning and night (about the same for the women at work) Once in awhile I'll meet one I like (and you have to either have reason to meet her like bus stop or coffee shop line up or at least find an excuse to to talk to her like "what time is it?" and then "oh wow thats a beautiful watch you have?" and don't be uneasy about using stronger feminen words like that.. its shows confidence) and I don't act nervous, and I don't act full of myself. Fun loving, somewhat louder but not screaming, genuine (actually listen when she talks.. or try to, as you are at eye level and it can be distracting and DO NOT BULLSH*T.. some overexaggerations can be ok, as long as you don't have to back it up someday and its not a story eligible for a fiction novel) and I have no problems at all, but if its obvious at some point that shes not into you then back off and take a friendly approach. If you're friends and you can keep the same confidence than you're chances are even better.. and you'll feel great with you're newfound hapiness with yourself, assuming you can take it to heart. If its a possibility you'll know, and then you just have to interpret and follow her lead in the game. I probably have alot of typos, I apologize, Im using a rollout keyboard while I wait for my new one to arrive -_-
I'm 25 years old and 5'10'. I've been dating a guy 15 years older than me the past two years, he is 5'6'' - 5'7'' He's my favorite person in the whole world, and we'll always be close.
I think shorter guys and taller girls probably have better chemistry maybe because we're both sort of misfits heightwise. Cookie cuttersville says men should be tall and women short. Being different probably helps develop your personality more. i think shorter guys and taller girls make attractive couples. Any couple that's crazy about eachother is a beautiful thing. Also, I think that the United States draws more attention and fusses over physical features than most other countries since the more insecure someone is the more likely they'll buy products/surgery to "improve" their look.
Stereotypes are ughhhh
To answer your question guys should be confident and go for what they want, forget your insecurities BUT don't bring height up or make a joke about the height difference right away. Being taller isn't the issue for me, it's when it's POINTED OUT right away that it makes me feel very self conscious, (like i'm an amazon or something) then I wonder if the only reason I was approached was because i'm an amazon (and i'm not!) instead of being attractive or interesting. Just like you wish to be noticed for who you are as a person. If too many comments are made about my height right away I run for the hills and never look back. Then you've also probably put me in a bad mood. I think that short guys are just trying to be nice and funny or make a lighthearted joke but they should know taller girls can be as insecure about their height as shorter guys. It can be fun to tease after you know someone better.
I'm 5'7" and I met a guy who's 5'4" and I think he's amasing! We recently started dating and its awesome.. He didn't do anything to get my attention he was just himself. Good personalitys are key for me so be yourself guys! Height isnt everything no matter when anyone thinks.. Its truely the inside that really counts in the end... so be a good person and you'll surely find the girl of your dreams no matter how tall she is!
I don't think height is a matter for dating in nowadays.. its only by the way one behave... never loose the hope.. Great Hub and valuable points..
Hi. I'm 5'4-5'5 feet tall. And i'm also asian. And guess what. Yep all the people i've been with have been taller than me and white... Not being racist. But how often do you see a short asian with a tall white girl... Its confidence. All you need is confidence... Plus be funny... And smile. That works for me.
hey,
i am a tall indian girl wid height of about6'3''... i hav a boyfriend who is jsst 5'5.
actually we met when i ws in school... in class 6.. we were nearly of the same height.. as time progressed.. i grew taller and by the time i ws 16.. i was alredy 6 inches taller to him... but its real love that matters.. so we are still together and share a very good relationship... planning to get engaged soon...
Well after reading this it gave me some hope..
I always wanted to ask this girl out (who i think is the most kind, caring, beautiful, girl in the world).. I know her for 4 years now, been close friends. Im 5.5 and she is 5.8 and three years older than me (im 22). I thought maybe i could erase her from my mind, but that didnt go well.. I always thought about her and still do .. but the height difference always pushed me back, and kept me away from doing anything.. I always thought "even if she will say yes, how bad would she feel if people talk about us..
But reading through these comments, it revived me to do something about my situation. Maybe ill just go and ask her out and just dont give a crap what will people say..
TY for the good advice
am 163 cm my gf is 179 cm shes fucking awsome and hot:D its totally possible and normal... just because people expect the guy to be taller doesn't mean you have to agree.
Just be diffrent its cool and don't be afraid to ask the worst is she will say no better than wondering ...
the guy who said its weird is a fag!
Shut the hell up Tall Girl. I'm 5'6, girlfriend is 5'8 with an athletic figure and double d's. How did I get her? Just being myself and realizing what matters more. If you say only a tall guy can satisify you, great, but they sure as hell aint fixing your ego and stupidity.
Hell yeah! Hub comments! Woo! Thanks gang!
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Hiyas. Firstly, i have to join the great many in saying Tallgirl, i'm sorry but it is true, you are a dumb shi t. If you only go for guys who are taller than you you are severely squashing your available market. Not only that, you are instantly dismissing people who may have been all the answers to all your dreams once you get to know them. i am a shortish guy at 5-7 and have found that shorter guys tend to be more intelligent, funny and talented than taller guys (not a rule though!) who can tend to be rather apeish in behaviour. Why dont you go and f*ck the biggest gorilla in the zoo? because thats how primitive your thinking is..
I have always been attracted to taller girls, and i think it IS because they are taller than me.. (partially anyway).. but i dont think thats a bad thing... i think people always want what they cant have. The grass is always greener etc.. Ugly fat guys want hot women. Rich women want richer men. Short guys may receive attention from shorter girls, but not the taller ones (due to insecurities on BOTH SIDES!!).. this is very important.. But i think the key is to Know Yourself! Realise that you are the shorter guy who is attracted to that that has always seemed 'out of reach' - pardon the pun - and so dont see it as a dark fetish that should be shunned.. simply realise what you want and go out there and get it! Sure you will be humiliated every now and again, but it is these failures that will make you better and yes it is all a numbers game... and remember tall guys have DIFFERENT INSECURITES and know what its like to be humiliated asking a girl out as well... JUST DONT CARE and realise we are all human and hate certain things about ourselves! Tall girls are attracted to me (the ones who arent as superficial as dumbkopf tallgirl - which you will have to deal with occasionally if you approach taller women- only natural) because i am not afraid to just be myself and appreciate the great qualities and talents that i do posess.. CONFIDENCE and KNOWING THYSELF!
Cam - i have no idea who you are but some of your comments made me laugh so i decided i could be bothered writing something here... Keep up the funny shiz!!
Oh and yes if you are short and you work out PLEASE do a combination of light/med weights and cardio and lots of abs. You DONT NEED to be lifting Swarzenegger weights and turn yourselves into little stocky sausage penguins!! There are far too many of you in Gyms around the world and you people look SILLY!! Totally reaks of Napoleon syndrome too... The aim here is to look and feel good, not grow as large muscles as you possibly can dont forget that!!
hi i am 5 ft 4 and my wife is 5 ft 9 inches tall. We love each other lots but we do face our momments of embarassment. When we check into a hotel i use the shorter bathrobe, the smaller bedroom slippers etc...Also when we go out partying. Initially I was attracted to my wife s height but now i wonder...at one party game i remember guys had to tie rubber bands on the partner s hair and it was so embarassing as i was the only one who could not reach her hair as she was wearing heels .....similarly when we go to buy shoes in a store....or when we try to dance....its not easy but love conquers everyting
I've mostly dated guys around my height and tad bit taller than I. Then I met this wondefulguy guy who was only about 5ft 7, ~ 170cm.
I was first concerned about our height difference. I'm 6ft 2, 187cm tall. Well He got me convinced, mostly because of his strong persona. The being height challenged compared to me didn't matter at all to him.
And It's been one of my best life experiences to this date. It opened my eyes to see it more differently and clearly, Your size doesnt matter unless you make issue about it yourself.
yea...im 5'10 and i love short and tall guys
lol i guess male is my type as long as they gudd lookin wit a gudd personality
wow, this is so relaxing for me... ma fiance z 4inches taller than me n ppl seem to be havin many probz wit dat.(including ma parents) but i never wantd to giv up on him coz we r totally fine with dat. wit all da comments i went thru, i guez itz jus another phenomenon, n nuthin so strange... thanx ppl...
Cam is hilarious and thx for all the good post from the females.
I am a very observant person. I have noticed that shorter people tend to look more youthful and attractive. However, most women are attracted to strength and power (unlike men). On the other hand, shorter men appear to be more intelligent or personable, which I assume is compensation for the social inequality due height.
I like the article but what you said about bodybuilding is straight ignorant.
Agreed with anon bodybuilder... if you like doing weights, keep it up!
I'm northern Chinese at practically 5'7 and I have a lovely and cute little boyfriend from the south who's barely 5'5. Know something that's almost as hard as a short man trying to score a random tall girl out of the blue? Getting the attentions of a 'cool'/cute Asian guy, ugh. A good number of them won't look you in the eye and the 180 cm ones who can, still seem to only go with 5'4 and under girls, because to them, small is a requisite for femininity. Even my boyfriend said "I don't like tall girls" when he first met me, the dork. But I digress! Here are some nice daily perks about being with a shorter guy:
-You can see over his head! A tall boyfriend is like having a tall satellite constantly blocking your view.
-He eats less than a full-sized man, so you're more likely to finish your meals together, and have similar appetites.
-His clothes aren't as huge so they're easier to wash and fold.
Being short is a blessing in a lot of sports too. My boyfriend is Hong Kong(ese?) and he's built like the typical model, compact build with short limbs and a long torso. It's great in martial arts, karate, and parkour. Explosive movements are more efficient to carry out on a small muscular frame than one that's more spread out. They also fit in aircraft better (piloting!) and if you're reeeally petite, you can be a jockey. And/or get child admission passes to movie theatres and stuff. As someone mentioned earlier, some short guys can look really young. He's actually 3 years older than me, but sometimes it doesn't feel like it.
I love cuddling his little baby body!
Im a very tall girl at 6'2", and have always dated men over my hight as I love to wear my very heels all the time, I even wear a pair of 8" stilettoes when I go out. Im also a kickboxer so im a very strong girl.
But there is this one guy who I spoke to online and on the phone he was 4 years younger than me (im 23), we got on so well, but I didn't know how tall he was and forgot to ask.
We decided to meet on a night out, so I whipped out my 8" heels and best outfit and went to meet him. When I saw him he was only 4'10" very skinny and weak. But when he went all red in the face and shy he looked soooo cute and I just fell for him and have been with him ever since. He gets intimidated when im in my heels, but I said I would never give them up and thats cool with him.
Its not about the hight its about the person, my bf is really really cute and wouldn't trade him for anything else.
Hi Casey. Please provide us a picture of the two of you. A lot of girls have said they are okay with shorter guys but no pictures yet. I would really like one with you wearing the 8" heels.
Cam
Chuuchuu,
Please tell me you let your boyfriend read your comment. If you haven't you should. I'm sure he'll love it.
Cam
whould u be heartbroken if you date a guy shorter than you?
I'm a 6'3" woman and I have never dated someone taller than me. In fact, I prefer shorter guys, due to the fact they always seem to have the best personality. I am confident, assertive and fairly dominant person, but I like to defer decisions etc to the guy - simply because I enjoy empowering and supporting any man that I am with. I tend to liken myself to a lioness though, when it comes to someone threatening/insulting my 'man' - and the short guys I've been with seem to get a real kick out of it.
All of this convo seems funny to me. I see it like this, if a taller girl has no interest in you because your short there is nothing you can do about it and she is obviously a primitive and shallow person who hasn't caught up with the times and is still in that hunter/gather mentality. I personally refuse to date shallow woman. It doesn't matter to me what a woman's height is. I'm 5ft 3 and my significant other is not only a gorgeous goddess but she is also 5ft 10. I fell in love with her for who she is not her height. So as far as I'm concerned it's either due to preferences or shallowness one or the other when it comes to taller woman not liking short men. Height has never stopped me before and about this REAL MAN crap. I hate to tell you tall guy only loving ladies but I have knocked plenty of guys 6+ feet straight on their ***. Height has nothing to do with protection from your guy, hate to tell you a lot of martial arts are designed for short guys. It's all about individuality. Instead of massive strength a short guy has speed which is just as good since extra strength makes you slow, it's all about ballence.
Peace
I am a 5'8 girl that wears 4 inch heels who loves short guys. The shorter the better! And btw I am good looking to say the least.... Right now I am dating a guy that is 4'6. I like littler guys... yum. But they can't be so down on theirselves or degrade theirselves all the time. Just because you aren't 6'3 doesn't mean a girl like me wouldn't like you. OMG.... Get over yourself. Take a chance on tall girls.
Short guys are gross.
I would like to say that bold confidence is your best approach when approaching any woman if you do not beleave in your game niether will she. Also if you have not Read Three Seconds of Game by Golden Style you have been missing out on alot of valuable game thats male or female. I recommend you get a copy.
I'm a tall girl and I happen to like this short-ish guy that I know. It irritates me that you talk about tall girls and short guys like some articles on the market. Are so many people in for sex only that all you care about are natural looks, the only thing we can't influence? Bah! If he can make me fall for him with his personality and behavior, he's in! And this article and discussion actually helped me decide.
It is true that I'm worried what other people will say. Still not a valid reason not to date him, though!
I am currently dating a guy shorter than me. I am 17 and he's 21. I am about 5'10 and he's 5'7-ish. I honestly feel like I couldn't be more attracted to anyone at this moment. He's confident enough (not cocky) to date me so I sure don't mind. He also told me he feels great about being able to get a tall girl and shows me off every chance he gets. I always had a weird enigma about dating guys shorter in stature than me but he's amazing. & I know 17 and 21 everyone has been really critical about that too, so we're kind of criticized for one too many things! Haha. But it all comes down to personal maturity. (I'm very mature for my age for example I'm abstinent. And he's a respectful guy, not some sick pervert preying on younger girls.) And put even more simply age is just a number. We're both really intelligent people who can relate on a very high level and we're crazy about each other which is all that matters. And he cares about me and respects me. In other words, I couldn't be happier! =)
I like to see couples where the girl is taller. When I was learning dancing you have to dance with all the giirls in the group. When I danced with one girl who was at least 6' taller, she was very kind and encouraged me a lot.
However some girls who were only 2-4 inches taller, they were very fussy.
I'm 6'1 and my hubby is 5'6. He is so amazing. At first I was skeptical because of his height. I always dated basketball players that were 6'5 and taller. But after falling in love with him, nothing else matters. He is a charmer, and a great lover! We are currently engaged and expecting our first child. I'm so excited!
I'mm 5ft 10in and my lovely boyfriend in 5ft 6in as well as 8 years younger thann me.
I wear heels and it turns him on to stand on a stool to kiss me!
The best tthing is when my 6ft ex husband sees us. It makes him furious
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I'mm 5ft 10in and my lovely boyfriend in 5ft 6in as well as 8 years younger thann me.
I wear heels and it turns him on to stand on a stool to kiss me!
The best tthing is when my 6ft ex husband sees us. It makes him furious
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Tall Girl, more like Ugly Girl. eeeew. If im starting a women's basketball team, ill call you. Lets be honest, everyone wants a short, cute girl.
Yea, im 5ft 2' and i take steroids and hgh. I have no neck and im short and stalky. I like taller women to rub oil on my muscles.
Im 24 nearlly 25, really tall for a girl, about 6'1 maybe even 6'2, and I LOVE my high heels as well as most of my mates are over 5'9 so it isnt a problem, never wear less than a 4 inch heel, even got a few pair of platforms 6-8 inch heels). I prefer a guy round my hight, but some of the really short guys are sooo cute. I hate bending down for a kiss tho, so I expect the guy to be on his tip toes and reach.
At the moment I am dating a really really short guy, he's a little under 5ft, but so adorable. He's only just 18, but he's so sweet. I still wear my heels round him, and think its lovely when he asks for a kiss as he cant reach lol.
What should I do I like a girl8 inches taller than me and I asked her out but she said no(politely, which is why I still like her) bcuz I'm shorter. She likes me, but is too scarred too go out with me cuz her friends would b mean 2 her if she did
r fucking retarded?, do u really think that a girl likes it when u stare at her nipple? a girl would only like that if ur her boyfriend and ur playing around, but not before u ask her out, people like u should jump off a bridge and die, fr being such fucking assholes, i cant believe u gave that guy that dumbass advice, you shouldnt be "askcam" u should be "askfuckface" screw u, i hate fuckheads like u
I was searching a bit and figured out, that all my favs are shorter than me:
Marky Mark
Al Pacino
Johnnie Depp
Lennie Kravitz
and they are all sexy as hell!!!
I'm a 5ft 7' guy and dont have absolutely any problem to date any girl that I like event at 6ft. this doesnt matter damn !
Really guys, they like us, we're short but cool, and being short can have even some good points especially at bed.
Now ! if you like a girl that's even 5 inches taller than you, just go ahead , show here who you are !!
Frankly, I'm young and short. I love spontaneous, random girls. I've always loved blondes but hey, everyone else is fine. These comments ( except tall girl the superficial jerk) have made just want a girl that's interested in me and that has a sense of humor. I think both tall and short girls, especially with ponytails (god, I love ponytails), can be very attractive. Short guys, God bless you and your confidence, and keep on truckin'!
Ok i have a few comments. When a girl picks a guy there are many factors she looks for, height being one of them. what most girls like is a guy that is within a certain range taller than them. I'm 5'7, which is short, but most 5'2 girls would rather date or do me than a guy that is 6'2. (at least thats what seems to happen) also i dated a girl once that was 6'2 so a bit taller than me.. when you have sex everything lines up. The height difference is in your legs so.. we were eye to eye when we were missionary. Anyway even if you aren't in her perfect height range, once again that is a factor among many. No tall guy with raging acne or a fucked up face would outdo a short dude unless the short guy was a legal midget. Some short guys just feel insecure. I never even knew it was a bad thing until i read all this bull online haha
Just because a guy is shorter then a girl doesn't mean he shouldn't even try or even feel self conscious. It should be the same situation if he was taller. Im 5'11 and my boyfriend is 5'6 and at the beginning height had always been a topic of awkward conversation and joking but now we embrace it and I cant picture myself with anyone else in the whole world. It shouldn't matter. If you like a guy and the only thing you notice is that he's shorter than you and then you discard him b/c of that, you have bigger problems then guys. As for the guys trying to pick up taller girls, do the same thing that you would if she was shorter then you. Any girl who just walks away from you cause your shorter, you don't want anyway. I think when it comes down to it all most people would be very surprised on how many girls would go out with shorter guys.
EMBRACE IT SHORT GUYS. My guy is. :)
It's just a number.
Just some encouragement. I'm 5'4...not tall by any means, but my boyfriend is about 5'2 or so. The difference doesn't bother me, nor him. He's a wonderful guy and I love him. I can't imagine being with someone else. Height isn't everything. And women (not all, I'm not one to generalize) can look at a man for who they are whole.
Wasn't Al Pacino shorter than the chick that played his wife? Just a thought. I am 5'3' my wife is the same height as me but I too have been with taller women. I just try and treat a lady like a lady. If anyone makes fun of my height , I just ask them if they are a Christian and if they are , I say talk to him.
My girlfirend Norma is the most beautiful woman I have ever met and is 6ft 4ins in heels whereas I am only 5ft 8ins.
I am proud to be seen with her and our love for wach othjer overcomes all difficulties and pressures (she's also 8 years older than me.
The only problem is when we see her 6ft tall ex boyfrined and it seems to drive him crazy.
what abt short girl liking the short guys?
Great discussion. I'm 5'6" and am interested in a 5'11" woman. She also has a boy friend which is a topic of its own. We work together, so I'm just being friendly and fun and hoping she drops the bf soon.
Best of luck everybody!
I'm loving a religious girl she is now as tall as me.But she is 15 years old.What can i do?
Will she grow more and more?
I cant endure this.
Congrats if you get this far down. Nice big tall girls are beautiful and sexy in a unique way. A line I use for them when they ask if I'm threatened by their height is: "It takes a great man to handle such a woman as you." Truthfully, since I'm a 5'5" man, dating shorter women freaks the me fu(k out because almost all the girls who are shorter than me are either decrepit old ladies or early adolescent tweens. My wife is 6'4" and I love it! Being at her breasts by default makes for great foreplay possibilities, to the point where I can get her ready before we're even in the room. It's girls that have the problems with short guys, and the solutions for you girls are simple: us guys rarely care, and the relationship is about our happiness, not what others say. It is a test of heart to be physically unbeautiful by the broad societal definition, but in the eyes of us tall trackers, you are goddesses. I'm off for my 6'th wedding aniversary, c-ya!
Okay first things first. I am 5'1 and dated a girl that was 5'8. And in my opinion, the most beautiful girl I've ever witnessed, and many would agree. I really let my personality shine, but the thing was I didn't approach her right away with the intention that I wanted a relationship. In the situation of shorter guys, there are things you have to know:
1) personality and confidence go a long way.
2) building a foundation and friendship first is crucial as most women don't see shorter men as prospects in the first place. Once you let your personality shine, skies the limit.
3) if you found a girl that wants a relationship with you that seems "out of your league," I can tell you one thing that I am postive about... SHE IS CONFIDENT IN HERSELF AND DOESNT NEED THE APPROVAL OF OTHERS AND THAT IN ITSELF, IS SEXY.
^^^ This is why I continue to go for taller girls. If they are attracted to you, you can deduce that they see you for who you really are and are confident in themselves...
unless your fricken loaded.
I am a 5"11 woman engaged to a 5"6 man. I have dated taller guys in the past, but it feels strange to me. Sure it can look weird to others. But who cares what other people think when your madly in love. I don't wear high heels anymore, which is better for my back anyway. We have not experienced dancing together yet as I think this would be a bit awkward.
I'm 6"0 teen and boys seem to be kinda weirded out! I was kinda suprised when i found this article because i didn't think guys liked tall girls. Though, I suppose, men seem more interested...? I still look for a guy thats taller than me to date, but they always seem to have skin problems, or are fat, or just look retarded and kinda stretched. Although i fit the stereotype i suppose; i'm instantly charmed by any guy that can talk about basketball or modelling.....
I'm only 5'5 yet I'm currently dating a girl that's 6'4 so the tall guy short girl thing isn't always there. As a matter of fact, I would actually prefer to date a woman that is taller! But in the long run height doesn't affect a relationship as long as the couple love each other! And short guys like me shouldn't be intimidated by tall women. Tall women are rejected all the time by people because of their height. And tall guys don't like them because they are busy chasing the smaller women when in fact they are missing out on the relationship that is literally looking them in the eyes! Usually if you just walk up and talk to a taller girl they will like you because not alot of shorter guys are brave enough to talk to them. But the shallow ones will still reject you it's no big deal you know. There are millions of women just waiting to show you their love.
How did you short guys get these tall girls? Were you friends and it just escalated or did you randomly approach them?
As well for you tall girls, how did you find your mates?
Ty!
So I'm an Indian-American teenager im 6'1 and it's so hard to find tall girls. I've dated two girls, all taller than me (one was 6'6, the other 6'10, both Indian and athletic). And Tall teen, guys love tall girls.
It's hard to find tall girls who aren;t obese or noodle width, but I have done it and hoped do do it again.
I"m less tall than some of y"all! My ex-girlfriend left me for some giant 6 foot 5 guy who she originally described as just a friend. Women love tall guys who are persistent, confident, and patient. If you have anything that's not jiving in your relationship, believe me, your girl is ready to leave you for some dude that she just met. Even if you had a strong 4 year relationship. Also, the guy is probably hotter, taller, and stronger than you. Know that!! Have a nice day :)
I'm just playin' y'all. There's no fast hard rule to any of it. Do what you think is right and don't let anyone try to make you feel like a punk. If they do, you have my permission to beat the shit of them (again, joking about the last part). Enjoy your life, today could be your only day.
Taller ladies who focus on a man's height and ONLY his height aren't worth dating. They may be tall in stature but extremely small on brains. I shake my head and sometimes laugh at these taller women who are obviously stuck in the stone age trying to seek out the best caveman by virtue of height, to protect them. Shallow, insecure, immature women will always be concerned about being judged by her girlfiends and negative feedback from the public. Short guys, be smarter than these women and don't let their insecurities get you down. Rejection can make you stronger if you "man up" and deal with it. At the same time, rejection can make you weaker if you allow yourself to entertain negative thoughts. Women like confident men. This is key. It doesn't necessarily guarantee success with the first woman you ask for a date, but a lot of women are turned on by any man that has the guts to approach them. Short guys do have to work harder just to get respect in this world and for women to notice them. That's a fact of life tall people will never understand. If they want to call you Napoleanic, let them. There's no reason why short guys shouldn't go after what they want in life aggresively without disrespecting the rights of other people.
i'm a 5'8 1/2 girl and i'm going out with a guy around 5'2 and i think its great. he's so sweet and has a great personality. i do admit tho that i always pictured myself with someone taller. but this is how it turned out and i love it. people might stare because they might think its awkward for the girl to be taller but who cares. if your a girl with someone shorter then you or a guy with someone taller then you, just be happy and dont let anyone judge you (:
If short guys are so great...whats wrong with short women? Does Short Guy want to be taken care of? Is he looking for protection? It just seems like a strange fetish for a little guy to have. I can see falling for one special tall lady, but to have such a preference across the board seems silly. I think a bit more analysis into what this guy is really looking for is necessary to figure out how to help him get it.
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If short girls are so great...whats wrong with short men? Does Short Girls want to be taken care of? Is she looking for protection? It just seems like a strange fetish for a little girl to have. I can see falling for one special tall lad, but to have such a preference across the board seems silly. I think a bit more analysis into what this girl is really looking for is necessary to figure out how to help her get it.
Well, you short girls seemingly love to get with the tallest guys and leave the tall girls wide open. And you're also the ones who go "you're too short" the most frequently.
I am not tall at all. I'm average. But I get what I want. I honestly don't like man over 6f tall. I think I hv dated everything .. It all comes down to chemestry.. If you like some1 you just do ... About tall girl getting her first pick.. Haha .. She must be high .,,
The only tip I could possibly give you "Short Men" out there, is that you need to have courage and go for it when asking out a taller lady. And don't be intimidated by her. I'm 5'11.5 "which is over 3 feet in legs" and my man is 5'6 and we have been together for over two years. It was awkward at first, but we both got used to it. I don't wear heals but reading this built up some courage to do so. The one and only thing that sucks about being tall, is how much more you pay for a few inches of extra fabric!
Omg, I'm a tall girl 178cm and i absolutely love when the guy is shorter! I just think it looks so hott. My boyfriend is like a foot shorter than me. Look at Katie Holmes and Tom Cruz = hotttt and nicolas sarkozy and his model wife Carla Bruni btw I'm a model 2 so obv. I have to be tall. So that's how u score a hot model tall gf xxx
----I like women taller than me----unfortunately there are none around here.
I am 5'2"
When I was younger (17) a girl who was 5'4" was very interested in me. She also had a girlfriend who was 6'0" whos boyfriend was 5'4"
Problem was
a) her other suitor as 6'0"
b) I felt intimidated by her
c) I felt she would leave me for another taller man.
d) I felt everyone would stare/other men would disrespect me by hitting on her in my presence/etc.
3 years later on the internet I had a good chance with a 5'8" woman - she was in fact going to fly to my country and see me.
7 years later, same, a 5'5" girl wanted me.
So overall, I do not know if its more the men or women who have an issue with shorter guys. In my case it was (probably) me (not 100% sure because I would have to pursue it first, which I didnt do).
But I think in general it is the girls who want taller men.
In my case, this has made me so scared (bullying by other males/ignored by females) that when my dream girl comes along - I cant do anything. Though even, hypothetically, if I was not bullied and ignored a lot - I have internal issues with taller women. Sad, because those are the only kind I want.
---I should re-phrase that-----I have always wished to be with a woman WAY taller than me----but I live in the middle of freakin' nowhere ----(unfortunately)
There's still enough tall ladies in this world that haven't graduated from the Caveman Institute of Superficial Learning.
It's ridiculous that a lot of you still judge the quality of a man by how tall he stands. Grow up already and realize that short poeple are actually quality people too! I often wonder if the age criteria to graduate from Caveman School requires women to stay in class until they reach menopause? It's like your eggs are drying up and fine lines are rapidly being replaced with deep wrinkles and crows feet. Tall, dark, handsome guys don't want you anymore right? Are short men worthy of dating you ladies with diminished looks now? I'm not looking to "grab a granny" but you tall women don't usually have open arms for short men.
im 6'0 tall im in love with someone whos 5'6 he is the best person ive ever met and the best lover.
ive had taller ex boyfriends but me and "shorty" got serious chemistry!
its just society messes everything up.
height shouldnt stop love
---Camielle-----I wish I could meet someone like you then around here but it's in the middle of freaking nowhere----and for whatever it's worth,thanks for thinking like that.I did meet one woman online who is your height but she's totally against going out with men shorter than she is.
I am middleaged and tall woman, who over the last year put on 20 pounds, but I would say that I am still atractive because I was quite skinny/athletic before. I have been single for some years, sue to various circumstances. Largely, because I work too much an dwas a single parent, also, I am of a different nationality than the country I live in, and can get selfconscious when having to be social and making small talk. So I'd say my confidence is middleing. I have had a mixed bag with relationships, some good guys and some bad timing and also some incompatible mindsets and behaviours where it probably took too long to suss what was going on and thus undermining self-confidence. Anyways, I have been in good and bad places and I can switch from feeling confident to non-confident.
I have been aroun d this guy at work for the last 3 years, he is quite a bit smaller than me, I am 5'10 he is probs 5'6, he is cocky, bright, full of grit, a geek, a lone wolf, been on his own for the last 7 years and he is simply the best guy I have ever met. I think he likes me too, and over time, we started chatting since April and been out a few times, we are getting clearer and more confident in ourselves and each other I guess, so its a process over time working it out and blundering along. But, only because he is so great, if he were an idiot or shallow etc, or on an ego trip, I'd not be interested. I thought I couldn't get over my own body changes and on top of how he is smaller than me, not necessarily skinnier, but built very differently from me..DOH, of course he is ; )but here we go,I am now very much up for it. I think I have fallen in love, how sweet is that. Wish me luck!
I'm a guy, only just turned 18 and I'm only 4'10 (I think) and I wont grow anymore.
Iv'e always had a hard life making friends, I got bullied through school because of it. To this day, I don't have a single friend who is a guy
As for taller girls, every girl I know is quite a bit taller than me.
When I started secondary school I was 11, I was around 4'4, but a girl on my road who was 16 used to walk to school with her mates (who were all quite tall). From then on I became friends with them all, and the girl I'm with now who I've known for a long time is over 6ft tall, and she also wears high heels when she is with me.
For any guy it takes a bit of getting used to, but once you are used to it, its fine.
I am a guy who is 5'4" tall and my wife is 5' 8" tall. We have a great life together and height has never been a problem. At my height all girls when in heels have been taller than me so it just has not ever been a problem. We have four children all girls and everyone took after their mother. The oldest at 19 is 5'11, the next is 17 and 5'101/2, 13 year old is 5'9 and the youngest is 11 and 5'8 so in every short man there is a tall gene.
i am 5'5" and want a 11'5" gf :p
if it were possible....it wud be wonderful.... lol
A lot of tall girls like short guys. Sort of that cute Dustin-Hoffman-meets-Howard-Wolowitz thing. That's not to say "all" tall girls do. There is no "all" in human sexuality. But I'm 5'11" and I've dated plenty of guys batting 5'5" or 5'6". You'd be surprised, a lot of models like short guys. Sort of that cute cocky cuddly confidence.
Hahahah to you all Im 5'3" and Im dating a girl who is 6'1" and she loves me and we go any and every where and just enjoy it !!!!!!!!!!!! OH and the sex is the best ;)
okay lets all be honest we all want a taller guy in some way or another, im 6'2 and i love taller guys but the taller guy doesnt always win. for example i was in total lust with this 6'3 male model but he was a total box of rocks, had no game and looked in the mirror more than any girl i know! then i met his best friend :) who was 5'8 and was instantly a hit with everyone his swagger, cockness and confidence drew me straight to him!we've been dating for 2 months
FYI always act like you own the place and talk with sophistication! cause us tall girls always do. ;)
haha shortmans got it right.. im 5'1" and i always be havin sex with my girl who is 6'1" too.... an entire foot taller then me
I disagree with the advice that short men should 'stick to cardio'. It would be a disaster, since cardio with no weight training would leave you with fragile bones and very little muscle mass. You'd end up super skinny, which will make your stomach protrude. If you are a man, NEVER take a woman's advice on workouts, you'd end up looking like a 12 year old girl.
Wow there is alot of stuff on here I am 5ft 2 male and sometimes get trouble with finding some one :(
Hmm, I read some of the things in this article and find it pretty surprising. I'm 4'7, 20 years old, with barely any friends to say the least. I'm quite shy however I have a wonderful gf who is 5'3 and I love tall women, especially 5'10 - higher. However, some ladies, i'm not saying all, have very closed minds and are like ya I only date up to this tall and think irrating me and saying ya "short guy" makes them think they have something more than me other than being tall and having a coconut for a head. Listen, the only thing I would say is having confidence builds character and the art of seduction is the next thing, however you can't idle by someone who's thick headed and go by what they feel is acceptable. Short guys don't have anything less than guys that are tall, and you'll be surprised in bed we probably do it 10x better ladies. Plus enjoy enjoy~ I can probably go down with you just standing up~ Lucky me.
I am 19 years old and am about 5'6... I graduated with a girl that was 6'2, and she is absolutely wonderful. In the past 6 months, we have become very good friends, and I actually took her virginity. She is super duper blonde and and is so incredibly beautiful. My fingers are crossed that this could wind up meaning more.
im 5'1 and feel like a loser does all short guys feel same,my frns just go out with all tall n hot girls and i feel so sad for me, its not that i dont like short girls but sadly all these girls are taken by big guys too :( but after lukin this blog i feel strong thanks:)
im a short guy and still 24, never had a gf and i have a big ego so i'l never run behind nyone and get rejected but i know one thing every woman wants CASH.. make money and bang ny woman u want doesnt matter if shes 6 2" or 4 8" they all want cash... just goto a sugar daddy site like seekingarrangement DOT com and finda woman like that... noone really cares abt ur height or looks if u've got the cash
I am 5'10" and my boyfriend is just a little over 5'4". He is intelligent, kind, funny, athletic and gorgeous! His height is a part of who he is and I accept and love ALL of him. Actually I love that he is short! I used to think that I had to be with someone tall because I was but the truth is I have always liked/preferred the short ones! Short guys, be confident, you are awesome and can get all types of girls! :)
I'm 5ft 9 short or tall ? From uk My girl is 6ft 1 plenty tall enough I'm thinking of getting built up shoes as I find it intimidating .She would love to wear heels but I won't allow it . She would look hideous walking with me I only permit her to wear flats .we get on fine .
I'm 5ft 9 short or tall ? From uk My girl is 6ft 1 plenty tall enough I'm thinking of getting built up shoes as I find it intimidating .She would love to wear heels but I won't allow it . She would look hideous walking with me I only permit her to wear flats .we get on fine .
I'm 5ft 5, and i'm a man; i'm younger than 19, and i remember that i dated girls who where as tall as me, but i also had taller, and actually my last girlfriend was 5ft 11, almost 6ft, and she liked high heels, so, we, the "short" guys have a chance because height is way overrated, i'm a little bit below the average height of my country, and i still was a good pick for the girls i dated.
Keep the faith!
I am 5 ft 1 and I have a girl that is 6 ft 7 and she
Is the best girl I have ever dated
Tall women usually avoid dating shorter men. North American culture says it's wrong, abnormal, unfeminine and unflattering. Most tall women, like their short sisters place extremely high value on their femininity and shorter guys apparently don't help this cause. Tall guys will always fit the bill. It's the rules of society.
I'm a 5'5 little guy, fit with muscles and I've been told by more than just a few tall ladies that short guys have no business dating taller women. It's an exercise in failure and a complete waste of time. Unless the tall girl has a boatload of self confidence or doesn't care about a man's height, she will always feel like a giant beast, a mother with her son, or a sister with her little brother standing beside her. I like tall ladies and my conquest is to break down these ridiculous social barriers. I've been lucky to have dated a 5'8 beauty, but she still had issues being taller than me so it didn't last too long. I do applaud those short men and tall women couples with extreme height differences who have found each other. Your confidence in each other to ignore public ridicule and look past the stupidity of height preference is a blessing.
Listen dude im a short guy and always have been, dont worry I get the tall girls. If me and my gf break up therer is usually another one waiting, usually tall. Just act normal, dont be shy. Around my gf im usually spazzing out, but thats what she likes. if i was shy and all she'd probably dump me. Then again that is my personality :P Good Luck
---Vincent has pretty much said everything that I have experienced---(unfortunately)----when trying to get a woman taller than me to go out with me.
Hey Craig, don't give up. I haven't. I'm just a whole lot more careful who I approach. I still love the tall girls, but I avoid any woman with a look in her eye that says "stay the hell away from me you short piece-of-sh*t." It's amazing when you see a tall woman with a half smile turn her pretty face upside down in seconds into an angry ugly frown the very moment a short guy shows interest in her. To me, it's just one less rejection to deal with that might have been harsh and rude on her part if I tried. Short women are just as guilty in sporting the nasty face to keep short guys away. I avoid them too. Years of rejection and disappointment has taught me to screen ladies by their facial expression. Some ladies will honestly return your gaze with a smile but that doesn't necessarily mean they are interested in making your acquaintance. It's up to you to make a move on her and find out. The worst thing she can say is a polite "no-thanks, I'm involved with someone" unless she's truly a mean, heartless, arrogant b**ch that wants to pubicly humiliate you for having the guts to talk to her. Beware, these women do exist and some take great pride in being especially hurtful to short guys.
---@Vincent-----well,what I need to do is get to a place with way more people then---like New York City or Los Angeles----because I live in a rural area of Pennsylvania and there are NO tall women around here-----
i really dont mind dating with a girl taller than me...in fact i love taller women....i m in relationship with 6 girls..and all of them are taller than me by around 4-6 inches...and i really love it...i never stopped them to wear high heels...the taller the girl is more the men get attracted to her.:)
I love shorter men! Only once have I liked a guy taller than me. Do short men like tall women?
of course they do! I'm 5'4 and I've always been attracted to women taller than me. The only problem is some short men are too afraid to approach women taller than them because they are too afraid of getting rejected because they assume that the woman would not be interested in a short guy.
But if you are attraced to short men it would be better for you to approach one yourself because they are less likely to approach you first.
Good Luck!
Good answer Steven. I'll second your response to the mysterious tall girl who posted above you. Short guys do like tall girls! I can't speak for all short guys, but in my case I love tall girls! They do it for me more than short girls. I've always been attracted to taller, leggier ladies and at the same time my experiences with shorter women have been more bad than good. When short women tell you repeatedly that you're not tall enough for them, it forces you to keep an open mind about your dating potential. I'll never reject a woman for being too tall but lots of tall girls reject me the same as the short ones for being too short. So, for all you tall girls out there who like shorter men, we have the same fears of rejection as you do. Just remember that there are short guys willing to date you and there's nothing wrong with approaching the guy first. I don't mind the heels either.
--have not been here for some time-----glad this conversation is still going on----
Hey I'm a short guy, 5'6" tall, and I've dated women short and tall, but I prefer taller women. Does anyone know of any dating websites that feature taller women for shorter guys?
hey am a really tall girl and my fiancee is actually shorter than me i never see anything wrong with it infact i think he is perfect its all about you and how you present yourself plus if you go out there looking for a tall girl chances are you'll never find her look for a great girl just for you and who knows she just might be tall
----how many women in the U.S. are-----(take a guess;I have no idea and that is why i am asking)-------six feet tall or taller?---------(since there are approx. 303 million people in the U.S. I am guessing there may be as many as 20,000-----or is my math off?------anyhow,I did see a tall woman at the Dunkin Donuts two weeks ago---if only I had known what to say to her----I was way too nervous at the time.)-----
I'm 6 feet tall and the only guys I have dated have been shorter than me! Height doesn't matter at all to me.. I actually like shorter guys ;]
Tallllllll Girl!
First of all, thank you very much for your appreciation of shorter guys! It makes me feel good knowing women like you exist! It's really rare for a tall girl to openly say that she likes shorter guys when so many women ignore us and chase after the tall guys.
Secondy, my question to you is how short will you go? What's your definition of a "shorter guy?" 9 times out of 10, the shortest guy a 6'0 girl will remotely consider is 5'11, maybe 5'10. Any guy more than two inches shorter gets the public humiliation treatment. Tall girls aren't known to be welcoming of a shorter's guys advances to begin with. The "he's too short for me," excuse is an easy cop-out. They are way too pre-occupied with feelings of giantism and not like a dainty little princess so they avoid any contact with the shorter guys who supposedly take away from their feminitiy. I find tall girls have a harder time dealing with people making fun, hurling insults and laughing at the shorter guy on her arm. Me? I don't care what people think because it's none of their business. I don't need public approval because I love taller ladies and I can honestly say that height doesn't matter to me. I would totally date a woman that's 6'0 feet or more but have yet to meet a long legged beauty who likes my short frame. Still hasn't stopped me from trying though.
--thank you for writing what you did Tallllll Girl!------I live in a rural area in PA. and there are no tall women here---(well,I know one but she already has a boyfriend)----and that tall woman I saw at the Dunkin Donuts in Lewisburg?----I will probably never see her again---(unfortunately)-----Interstate 80 is only like ten miles away--she could have even been from the state of New York-----
Cows.
Wow, I want a piggy back ride from a tall girl, that would be awesome.
i'm an asian,19 years old and stands 150cm tall. Most of my ex-girlfriend were all taller than me by 10-20cm (it didn't last by the way..the longest was 4 months and i was blessed! ) and it was ALWAYS them to make the first move. help me to turn things around and step up my game.tq XDD
-----is anyone beside me living in Pennsylvania?------(I ask because this is a rural area and like I wrote earlier,there is probably a much greater chance of meeting a tall female in a large city like Minneapolis or Milwaukee or Houston.)-----
I know how you feel. I may only be 14 but I am only 5 foot and I will only grow 5 more inches
ok,
im 5'11 and proud of it. My boyfriend is probably 5'6 and im crazy for him. I was a little nervous about dating him but after getting to know him i got over it and sucked it up. Hes amazing and he won me over with his personality and his cuteness. remember that personality definitely is the key to winning over a tall girl.
Its interesting post, i want to share my case. I m 5'7 and my gf I dont know exactly but i m sure more than 6'7 . Height and physical appearance matter most when u r looking for a just intimate encounter, wheras for true love and relationship , hight etc r secondry. Yes we do feel uncomfortable sometimes, but our interest and love have priority than people thinking and comments.
I'm 5 9' and I'm dating a guys who is 5 5', and he's the best lover I've ever had. Don't miss out of something great just because a guy is short. The sex is amazing... just saying.
my wife is 5.11'' iam 5.8'' ,i like her height ,only problem is she wearing high heel
im 16 and stand only 5 ft 4 with my shoes, im in love with a mixed girl in school shes 5 ft 10 in flats, i write poems but that dont work, what the hell do i do to win her heart?
Im 5,3 -23 yrs old. Very self conscious but somehow have hooked up with my fair share of chicks. Nearly every girl I hit on is taller than me, and after years I simply came to terms and accepted that it's going to take courage, and it gets better with time and rejection. I'm still nervous as shit when I approach girls at bars etc., but eventually I reached a point where I realized I can only control so much in this world, and most of that is what comes out of your mouth. Be funny, be yourself. That's what has worked for me in the past. Gotta risk it to bang the biscuit, right? SHORT POWER! Gotta admit though it will give you a boost even if you hit on a hot chick and get rejected when you look around and realize how many 'taller' pussies are next you wondering how short man had the balls to talk to the girl they have been drooling over drink after drink.
what is the most likely store in york or rock hill that the girl i like may be this month? i hope if i can find her somewhere i could ask her out, maybe to my place. are there any magic words i could say. i love this girl i really want to do it.
That was a great point about looking like summer sausage. All of the tall girls I've been with dig skinny and most of us shorter ones are stockier built anyway. Height shouldn't really matter anyway, tall is sexy yes but if I fall in love with a woman shorter than me, does height really matter? Personally I think not.
I'm 5'9 I'm tall for a hispanic woman. My boyfriend is only 5'6 and I'm very much in love with him. Let's face it most hispanic men or shorter than the average dude. Though I'm not one to judge a person's heart by their height. Who cares what everyone else thinks it's about you and the other person thinks. So my advice is to be your charming self because if a woman won't date because of her height she's not the one for you. No one wants to date a shallow person anyways.
Hey 5'9 Hispanic Chick!
You nailed it! This is what I've been saying all along about women outside of the US. You are so right that a man's height is not as important as the quality of his heart. Lots of women in America hold firm the insane belief that shorter guys are genetic mistakes that shouldn't be allowed the same rights in life as taller guys. Scary as it sounds but there are women, some short and some tall who believe short men should be eradicated from society and never heard from again. Check the net, these women do exist.
Thank you for your post. It's nice to read stuff like this coming from a 5'9 women if you're honest. I always look forward to travelling and meeting people aside from the shallowness that plagues America. No joke, foreign women are much easier to approach and talk to.
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Vincent, unfortunately it's not only a US thing. I'm from Hungary and I suffer from the same. Tall women just won't date a shorter man. As far as I remember I've always been attracted to taller women.
I am only 15 and am the 3rd shortest out of the 300 people in my year, and I am the 1 with the most amazing GF I can barely reach her head but she don't care. I am getting a load of 'comments' from friends ect, is there a way to stop them?
14eeny, never mind, your friends envy you. Don't let this discourage you.
People underestimate themselves too much, im 5'4 and i have been with plenty of beautiful women. Yes, there are people out there that wont give you a second look due to your height, but why would you want to meet them anyway? Keep your chin up because you can do amazing things that a taller man could not even fathom
I am 6'3 tall.
I think the main reason girls reject shorter guys is that the guys appear to be nervous and not confident in their selves because of their height. I mean the social stigma says that guys better be taller than girls. And girls are hard on short guys because they have expirienced shorter guys who were not confident in who they were so they dont really expect any difference with other guys shorter than they are so they drop them off more quickly.
I was thinking the same way until I met my boyfriend. He was super confident and was funny and cute and that turned me on. He just was a normal guy with positive energy :)
By the way
My boyfriend is 5'1.
Melanie, it's nice to read there are couples out there like you. I envy your boyfriend. ;)
I'm 6'1 and have been since the 8th grade. I'm 29 now, and can honestly say that I didn't realize how sought after tall women are by shorter men until a few years ago.
I'll let you in on a little secret (confirmed by all my fellow tall lady friends): For the better part of our formative years, tall women are dating pariahs--hello Joan Cusack in any 80's John Hughes movie. Much like cute little Great Danes with giant paws, we had to grow into our bodies, oftentimes clumsily. On a positive note, this becomes a fantastic time to grow a sense of humor, develop unique interests, or become really nice. [Sidebar: I am speaking only for the women that will fit into the "Amazon" category, not ones that are 5'9]. It seems to me that short men had similar experiences, so oftentimes short men & tall ladies become good friends at college or the workplace. Now it's been implanted in our brains since toddlerdom that we should find a dude taller than us to date. So if some random guy that's 6'5 asks me out, I'll probably say yes. BUT, what my friends and I are finding is that when we go on these dates, they aren't that fun. They're boring and awkward and the only thing we have in common is our rare height. I'd rather have spent the night with my funny, laid back, let me be myself short dude friend. This is where tall chicks come to realize how great shorter men can be, but often, sadly, assume that their short dude wouldn't accept the height difference.
A few years after college, I met up with a guy I hadn't seen since graduation for drinks. We met our senior year and to this day, he is one of the funniest, smartest, and most caring people I've ever met. I would guess he's 5'6. After a few pops he told me he had a huge crush on me in college. I had NO idea. Now this was all in jest as he had a serious girlfriend (who is now his lovely wife) when we met for drinks. We made a few jokes about it and he said, "in my head, I was like, 'woman, I will CLIMB you!'" Now don't go saying that to tall women you don't know, you'll get a face full of water...but my point is, had I known he felt like that, I totally would have let him. ;) Not because of his height, because he was so much fun to be around, and such a good person.
Be yourself. Be confident. Have fun. The ladies will come, tall and short.
i'm tall and too skinny and i think it's just so sexy to be like that, i accept what iam and really i think it's good to be a tall person it's just so hot ;)
Tall Girl 6'1 and Melanie 6'3. I'll second the response from Gabor and applaud both of you ladies for having open minds to dating shorter men. There are still a ton of tall women who want nothing to do with a short guy, period. It doesn't matter how handsome, fit, funny or educated he is. His lack of height is a clear indication of his inferiority, just like it is to the hords of short and very short women who demand the 6'0 tall guys. At the same time, there are short guys who steer clear of taller women because they feel that their masculinity is being stepped on. I'm not one of those guys.
Melanie, your man is a very lucky man and it's makin' me jealous in a very good way. I'll bet you're an awesome looking couple. If's he's a quality person, you're just as lucky to have found a partner you can share your life with. So glad to know that there's tall ladies in this world who are comfortably dating shorter men and vice-versa.
My son who is 4'8 is having really good relationship with his girlfriend, 6'1 tall, for already 2 years. He is 18 and she is 16.
Ladies & Gentlemen. I can gladly state I know how to get any girl or at least enable one to have a high level ratio. I've been trying to figure out why I always get mud thrown in my face, but I isolated a few instances where I was successful in picking up or successful with women.
Now the first instance was when I manage to get this ginger or red hair girl (Trust me she was hot!!). In that particular scenario I did not hesitate it was as if my body dragged me towards her, when speaking with her I was completely relaxed and not nervous. (I later became very close with her and fell in love with her).. Although it didn't work out in the end.
Another instance was when I was in a club which plays indie music. Again I saw the girl which took my interest, a nice Italian girl with short frizzy hair. I went in straight away and did not hesitate, I was somewhat swashbuckling in my demeanour to be fair.
Now each of those events, I was drunk.... my low self-esteem and lack of confidence wasn't an issue due to the alcohol.
Very bad? Yes, indeed.
Now what I gathered from my experiences is you only need one ingredient in order to be successful with girls.
Forget the money, being well endowed, being attractive, intelligent. All of these which do help or contribute somewhat but the main piece is CONFIDENCE!!!
And unfortunately most if not all lot of us suffer here, I am guilty of such things. 3 Second rule, if you can't approach her in that time then you'll probably talk yourself out of it.
Tina said this a few years back and I gotta respond even though it's a little late. Sorry for that.
"If short guys are so great...whats wrong with short women? Does Short Guy want to be taken care of? Is he looking for protection? It just seems like a strange fetish for a little guy to have. I can see falling for one special tall lady, but to have such a preference across the board seems silly. I think a bit more analysis into what this guy is really looking for is necessary to figure out how to help him get it."
This is typical BS that short guys deal with constantly. Mostly it comes from women, especially the short ones who make excuses to feel uncomfortable if and when they see short man/tall woman couples in public. I can never understand how and why a woman puts so much value and energy into strangers or someone else's relationship that has nothing to do with her current situation. It's like explaining racists who can't keep their mouths shut and mind their own business in the presence of other couples, especially if they are mixed.
FYI, the only thing really wrong with short women IMO is that a lot of them have too much hate for short guys just for simply being short. There are lots of short chicks who loathe the attention they get from short guys. They hate being approached by guys who don't meet the specific height requirements because it means the little guy is annoyingly getting in the way of her pursuance of the tall guys. Who are we supposed to approach then? It's not like tall women have open arms for us and many of them have the same amount of hate for us that shorter women do. Also, I have to ask what does protection have to do with the issue? I'd like to believe I'm man enough, smart enough, quick enough and strong enough to protect any woman, any size. This excuse kinda makes no sense because women get assaulted more often when they are alone, not with a man on her arm. Besides it's always the short women complaining about needing a bigger, taller man to protect them. Taking care of someone has nothing to do with a person's height either. It has more to do with the quality of a person's heart.
One more thing. Why is it not a strange fetish when a really short girl is dating a really tall man who's more than a foot taller than she is? Why can't the opposite be accepted in society if people really care about each other? I have no problems being a 5'6 guy and dating a woman well over 6 feet. It's all about being comfortable with yourself, being comfortable with the person you're attracted to, and not worrying about how the public views your relationship choices.
Well said, Vincent! One more question. Why am I supposed to protect a shorter woman better than a taller one? My strength (or weakness) doesn't depend on whom I am with. :-) Nonsense.
tall girl your a bitch and epic fail I'm probably shorter then you but guess who wins between the taller man and me. Me bitch because guess what? I I'm a sexy son of a bitch I'm cocky as all hell and my dick is really big too so your also ignorant for thinking that short men are always smaller down there Don't believe me I got a pic bitch! And I almost always win in a fight against bigger guys I can pound down just about anything and take it like a big shot The only place size matters is just how large your heart is and How confident you are and I'm fairly confident in my answer that'd any man with a brain would never date your pathetic little a**.
and all my rudeness and crudeness aside, that was to the very first comment on this thread. Because that's seriously some of the stupidest s*** I've ever read and I have trouble tolerating bull***t. B**ch don't know jack shit I'm sure she also believes there's some imaginary dude is always watching her through her window.
Hello Steven Mann,
Don't get yourself twisted over what you read by some people here. Tall Girl #1 could be a troll but sounds more to me like an arrogant b**ch that only has her looks to get what she wants. Women like her have no character and are really nothing special. Maybe nice to look at but not worth much else. Not even a good wank! Hahaha!!! I hate to say it, but there are more ignoramuses like her in this world both short and tall. Self-entitled, pretentious, ignorant, superficial and materialistic. Not a good recipe for any good man. I'm thankful that Tall Girl #1 doesn't speak for all the tall girls of the world. The evidence is here, if these taller women posting are speaking the truth. I believe some of them are. At the same time, I amazed at some of the responses I've read here from people in relationships with extreme height differences, especially the the shorter guys. It's nice to know that there are women who place less importance on a man's height.
I've dated/been intimate with short guys (I am 5'11 and the shortest guy I've been with was 5'7ish). We're all the same height when we're laying down (though certain positions are extremely difficult to pull off). Personally, the problems arouse when he and I were not lying down. I had to bend down to kiss him and he would sometimes stand on his tiptoes. That just turned me off, because I felt like I was kissing my little brother. As Cam said though, part of the problem was probably my own insecurities as well. Moral of the story: if both parties are fine with the height difference, then power to them. PS. DO NOT mention her height in even slightly derogatory terms or say things like "I've never been with a girl as TALL as YOU! But I'm okay with." Tall girls have heard that nonsense all of their lives and a good portion probably have a chip on their shoulder about it (I know I do).
Also, I noticed some of my spelling/grammar mistakes: "laying" should be "lying" and "arouse" should be "arose"
i'm a guy and I wish I was taller since I'm only 4'4" Tall barefoot
It's very funny when tall women copmlaining about bending down. Have you ever heard men complaining about bending down to women? It's equally uncomfortable if comfort is an issue. :-)
the topic itself is a waste of time...the guy who has written this article must be trying to dishearten other guys from chasing tall girls
There is this girl who likes me. And to be honest I'm falling in love with her too. But she is taller than me. She is Asian, dark skin, very long black hair, has pretty big tits is quite slim. I'm about 5'10 and she is 5'11 or 5'11 and a half,and sometimes wears heels. When I see her face to face and I look up at her, her soft voice and passionate smile turns me on so heavily, my heart pounds so hard I feel like im going to swallow my tongue. A few days ago we almost kissed but I backed off and I quickly turned around a corner and was almost out of breath. I hurt her feelings too, but I didn't mean to. Thinking about her I feel sick so my stomach and don't feel like eating. When I'm doing something or when at work I find it difficult to concentrate. I've made excuses not to meet her for dinner and other times she wants to see me, when she called me I lied that I was busy when actually I was sitting in my apartment watching a DVD. I'm not sure what to do about this. I'm 28 and she is only 22. I always wanted to find a tall girl, always found tall women very attractive. But it's so easy to think things and say them until you're actually faced with the situation. I'd be stupid to let such a girl slip away. My ex used to tell me she would never go out with a guy shorter than her, and so did some of my female friends. I just wonder what my family would think of me dating a taller girl. I got rejected many times by shorter girls. This girl would surely wipe out all thoses bad memories. I am a white man who prefers either Asian or Latino girls. I'm not sure why she is so attracted to me like she is. I never thought such a hot girl like this would dig me. By the way I work out in the gym and by body is nothing but solid muscle. If any of you who read this, whatever advice you could give me would really be appreciated.
KevinM1984, stop thinking. It seems you're in love. It doesn't matter what others say, just date her and enjoy those moments.
I m 5'2 and 19 yrs old never really had a GF but in 2011 i really liked this tall beautiful girl. I still do but can't tell her cause she is a bit taller than 5'8 and she might not want to date a guy 6 inches shorter than her. I know i am gonna get rejected and i am afraid that she will break up the friendship. Well FML.....to all short guys out there...we just need to realize that sometimes in life we cant get everything we want and there are some things that we just cant do....being shot is a curse but hey it not bad like some ppl who are born handicapped so we should be grateful that we are at least physically fit :) Just continue doing what you are passionate about. Like i am a musician and i am really passionate abt it. Forget abt the girls we are never gonna get one (cause even the girl shorter than us prefers a taller guy) ;) but take that fact like a man.
-----have not been here for a long time;glad to find this page again------(wish I could meet a tall woman)----
Tall Girl 5 years ago
If that advice doesn't work try shoe lifts, or a surgical procedure to extend your legs, and your **** while your at it. Sorry you’re short. That's a curse and hard to overcome. Short guys are always second pick. I'm a tall girl and the guy has to be as tall as or taller than I am. I get first dibs on tall guys. Short girls understand this. After the good looking tall girls get tall guys, then good looking short girls get tall guys. Freaky Frankensteins are next in line, then midget girls. It turns out that no girl really wants a short guy. Your best hope is for a retarded giant transvestite or a cardboard cutout.